Page 70 of 500 First Editions (The Romantics #3)

To my loving daughter,

One of the hardest things to do in life is say you’re sorry.

Humans have become too fearful of the word, when it should be in our everyday vocabulary.

Folks have become far too litigious, chasing apologies away and making it seem like, if we dare to apologize and admit fault and wrongdoing, that we’re weak and we’ll lose some imaginary standing.

I think it’s the opposite.

I think it takes a strong person to admit when they’re wrong. It takes wisdom and self-reflection to admit that you can do better, and that you will.

If someone is seeking the high ground in a relationship, you’re sure to fail. There are no winners in relationships. Only losers.

Apologizing doesn’t make you the loser. Apologizing is reaching for your partner, and admitting that you need help and guidance to find your footing again.

Love requires humility. And when you love the right person, you won’t be afraid to say you’re sorry because you know that your vulnerability will be protected.

Likewise, your partner should not be afraid to say they’re sorry to you. Welcome that self-awareness. Honor the courage that it takes to admit fault. Then, try again tomorrow to make the next day better than the last.

Love,

Dad