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Welcome to the Ford Method. Now, you might be thinking, “Twelve steps to fall in love? This is either a scam or the easiest thing on the planet.”
But you would be wrong, my friend.
Here’s the thing. You get out of The Ford Method what you put into it. If you do the bare minimum, you’ll get a fun little fling. If you dig deep and put in the work, you’ll have a real shot at forever.
This isn’t a scam, but it’s also not a guarantee. Falling in love isn’t as easy as society claims. It’s less about happenstance and more about being intentional. I’m giving you the tools to get out of your own way and make genuine connections.
Now before you go and try to get your money back, here’s the disclaimer: This isn’t a magic potion.
These twelve steps aren’t going to make someone fall in love with you who isn’t meant for you.
It’s not made to change your mind about someone you’re on the fence about.
If you want to cut out at step three or six or even at step twelve, do it.
If you’re not all in, you’re already out.
Take a break. Hit up the BetterYou series or schedule a coaching call, then get back out there with step one.
This program isn’t only for men. There are no “his and hers” sections. Love is love, and all parties must make an effort. The Ford Method isn’t even just for single people seeking partners. It’s a great way for couples to fall back in love with each other. This plan is for everyone.
Each step in The Ford Method is formatted to take one week, but you can spread out the program as long as you like.
Don’t think of the steps like a checkbox.
Think of them as challenges. Go as hard and deep— ayo!
—as you can. It’s not about completing the step as fast as you can and moving on to the next.
FYI: this also applies to foreplay.
Remember what I said about a fling? If you race through, you’ll find yourself stuck in the shallows.
“But Ryan, I don’t have a lot of money to win over the person I like.”
Get out of here with those excuses. Everyone deserves love and companionship, which is why The Ford Method doesn’t require a big budget or any budget at all. It costs something far more than your money. It costs your time.
If you’re not ready to make the commitment to pursuing forever, there’s no shame in stomping on the brakes. Props to you for being self-aware and knowing what you have the capacity to handle. Head to the BetterYou page for free resources that are created to help you get to the starting line.
If you’re ready to take control of your love life, take it slow and be intentional. Oh yeah, and remember to send me a wedding invitation when you find the one .
Ryan Ford
Creator of The Ford Method