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BDSM Slave- A slave never stops being a submissive and turns over all control to their partner. Slaves are typically involved in 24/7 ortotal power exchange relationships.

Four Behaviors of a BDSM Slave

Asking permission – to masturbate, cum, eat, speak, or use the bathroom are all common

Obeying orders – both explicit and implicit

Surrendering control – completely

Being sexually available – at all times

CNC (Consensual non-consent)- kinks, popularized by the BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism) community, involve consensual, intense role-play of one individual consensually sexually assaulting another. Consent and specific communication around roles and boundaries must be discussed for a healthy CNC experience.

Cock Warming- The act of a man slipping his erection into his partner's vagina or ass in order to keep warm - a more intimate version of spooning

Desperation – holding or forcing someone to hold back from urinating

Fear Play- any sexual activity that involves the use of fear to bring about sexual arousal.

In fear play, an individual's terrified mental state triggers a rush of adrenaline which causes arousal. Fear play is different from masochism, in which arousal is caused by an endorphin rush. Fear play falls into a category of BDSM-related activities, marked by high physical or psychological risk, called "edge play."

Non-Con (nonconsensual)- referring to various kinds of relationship scenarioswhere one or both of the participants is forced into sex. Generally associated withrape fantasy and highly controversial.

Pussing Voyeurism – the act of a male watching a women pee

TPE- (Total Power Exchange- is a specific type of power exchange, or D/s, relationship, that some couples practice. While most D/s exchanges happen within a scene, such people who practice total power exchange retain the power dynamic outside of the scenes in their everyday lives. Because of this, some people refer to TPE relationships using the label “24/7”. 24/7 TPE relationships don’t work with every submissive type.